Dr. Bailey is getting ready for her wedding and has extreme pre-wedding jitters, this week on Grey’s Anatomy.   She refuses to be near her family, so she doesn’t have to hear about wedding plans, and hair and make up.

Derek Shepherd’s sister Lizzie is a match as a nerve donor for his hand surgery. He tells Meredith and Callie Torres that the surgery is too risky and to cancel it in the heat of the moment.

Meredith goes to talk to Lizzie and tells her that she needs to do the surgery no matter what Derek says and asks her not to tell him she spoke to her. Lizzie tells Meredith that she  is upset that she hasn’t met their adoptive daughter and that she is never around and neither is Derek.   Meredith tries to explain to her that she had a very different family growing up and that she needs to stay out of it when she brings up her half-sister Lexie.