Melinda Dillon, A Christmas Story And Close Encounters Of The Third Kind Actor, Dead At 83

Melinda Dillon, who starred in “Close Encounters of the Third Kind” and “A Christmas Story,” has died. She was 83.

While the news first made headlines Friday, an obituary page from a cremation provider in Long Beach, California, states that Dillon passed away Jan. 9. A cause of death for the two-time Oscar nominee hasn’t been made public, but the reasons to celebrate her life have long been clear.

Dillon was born Oct. 13, 1939, in Hope, Arkansas, and started acting at Chicago’s Goodman Theatre, per a Turner Classic Movies biography. She was an original member of The Second City, the now-renowned improv hub for later talents like Tina Fey, Steve Carell and Chris Farley.

Dillon would make her dramatic bones on Broadway, however, and study under legends like Uta Hagen and Lee Strasberg.

She was nominated for a Tony Award in 1962 after performing in the original cast of “Who’s Afraid of Virginia Woolf?” and starred in 1967’s “You Know I Can’t Hear You When the Water’s Running,” per People.

“I had had the American dream—to go to New York and study with Lee Strasberg,” Dillon told The New York Times in 1976. “I guess I just wasn’t prepared for it all to happen so quickly in New York. I’m not sophisticated.”

Melinda Dillon was a founding member of The Second City improv troupe before arriving on Broadway.
Melinda Dillon was a founding member of The Second City improv troupe before arriving on Broadway.

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After garnering small parts in daytime television shows such as “Bonanza” and “The Jeffersons,” Dillon broke into Hollywood with roles in Hal Ashby’s “Bound for Glory” (1976) and opposite Paul Newman in George Roy Hill’s “Slap Shot” (1977).

It was at Ashby’s suggestion that Steven Spielberg cast Dillon in his science-fiction classic “Close Encounters,” per The Hollywood Reporter. Dillon, who got the part three days before filming, received an Oscar nomination for best supporting actress.

Dillon became a mainstay on the coveted lists of casting agents for decades.

She starred in “F.I.S.T.” (1978) opposite Sylvester Stallone, portrayed John Lithgow’s wife in “Harry and the Hendersons” (1987) and appeared in “The Prince of Tides” (1991) opposite Nick Nolte, under the direction of Barbra Streisand.

“Melinda Dillon was such a great actress, with a wonderful delicacy about her,” Streisand tweeted Friday. “She was a delight to direct in Prince of Tides. May she rest in peace.”

Dillon earned her second Oscar nomination for “Absence of Malice” (1981), a legal thriller directed by Sydney Pollack that reunited her with Newman. Her role as Mother Parker in Bob Clark’s “A Christmas Story” (1983) is fondly remembered to this day.

Dillon was cast in Spielberg's iconic "Close Encounters of the Third Kind" (1977) mere days before filming began.
Dillon was cast in Spielberg’s iconic “Close Encounters of the Third Kind” (1977) mere days before filming began.

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“So very, very sad to hear of the passing of Melinda Dillon,” tweeted actor Lou Diamond Phillips. “She played my adopted mother in Sioux City, my second directorial effort. What a Light and a Blessing. So effortless in her work that it was easy to overlook how brilliant she was.”

“I feel so lucky to have known her,” continued Phillips. “RIP.”

Other notable credits include “The Muppet Movie” (1979), “To Wong Foo” (1995), “Magnolia” (1999) and “Reign Over Me” (2007). Married to late Second City alum Richard Libertini from 1963 until 1978, Dillon is survived by their son.

Many of Dillon’s other peers, friends and colleagues are now paying tribute to her online.